Hey guys! it’s a beautiful day and i am getting more comfortable blogging, sharing my thoughts, using my own words(like i have always done) without feeling scared or nervous i would be criticized. Though i am not afraid of constructive criticism because they make me adjust and become better.
I have gotten a lot of questions regarding my dress sense and way of life, and i have also gotten a lot of remarks from people who has seen me physically, querying me as to why i would decide to hide all dem curves and ass in dem gowns? Lol.
Several times, i have also gotten comments like “if I have your body type i would walk naked” i did actually feel weird about all of this at first, but now, i’m getting used to comments like that and truthfully i really don’t know how i can make them see reasons to why i love modest fashion, but hopefully this blog post will do justice to that.
The first thing i always ask when i’m being pose with questions regarding why i’m covered up are:
1. don’t you consider me still beautiful despite being covered up?
2. Who exactly deserves to see my nakedness?
3. What do i intend to achieve by putting my whole body on display?
Vividly, i am an advocate for modest fashion and living right.
That it’s widely in vogue doesn’t make it right. Honestly, i am not judging anyone who decides to go out bare on the street. No, far from that.
Modesty generally,has a lot to do with my thoughts, way of living, what i sell out and my physical appearance.
Aside my Religion and background which encourages modest dressing, a lot comes with being modestly dressed.
There is a saying that goes “You are addressed by how you are dressed” this saying is non-arguably correct.
Here are some of the Advantages that come with being modestly dressed:
Being modestly dressed comes with a feel of class. I always see modest humans as being classic, smart, intelligent and beautiful.
Modest dressig comes with a lot of image representation as a lot of people sees you as descent, responsible, well behaved and above all, you are being perceived to come from a good home.
Being modestly dressed exposes you to greater opportunities. I would want to work with a responsible person. Someone that can represent my brand. I wouldn’t want a person dressed shabbily to speak for my brand; i am sure a lot of employers think this way too, unless of course you are working in a night club.
Modest dressing speak volumes when you are in a gathering; it protects you from inappropriate people walking up to you to address you in a disrespectful manner.
It connotes self-respect.
There are so many trends that support women walking about naked to be honest, couple with the pressure from our society as well.Trends that makes women or men feel their boobs, thighs and ass need to be displayed to be considered beautiful ; trends that suggest to boys to go out on dreads , ripped and sagged jeans, half shirts to be considered classic.
This popular trends make some people feel if you don’t do any of the body exposing, you are definitely not civilized and fashionable or in the league of the cool gang.
Keenly speaking i feel if you ever feel the need to do all of these things to be considered beautiful then you have self-issue called “Low Self Esteem” that you need to work on. Some of us can’t wear the things we wear in the presence of our parents because we know deep down that they are inappropriate.
Finally, Beauty starts from within. your carriage, way of living, what comes out of your mouth as well as what you wear are considered modest and that is the right way we should live because aside it being pleasing to our creator, it connotes self-respect and how we would love to be addressed.
Most of the outfits i wear are fabrics carefully selected by me including the styles.
If you want these outfits in your size, send a DM or an email.
I also look forward to working with beautiful stylish modest brands.